These posts just further perpetuate what one sees in most youth programs which is those parents that think they know it all, but are never really involved and are responsible for the bad blood, politics, poor sportsmanship and juvenile behavior. Many times reverting to behavior that is much worse than their children that are involved would ever portray. These parents can’t do it on the field anymore so try to get one up on opposing teams, opposing parents, or opposing leagues through their ridiculous behavior. One can only hope that the volunteers that associate themselves with either league have the moral values to provide a good learning experience for all involved. In this case, we are not talking about just football, but the life lessons that come with it such as; honesty, integrity, self discipline, good sportsmanship, hard work, and dedication. Pop Warner Football is the new league in the valley. Both have the same issues of organization and structure, raising operating funds, finding locations to play games, finding volunteers and providing a means where-by youth can learn the life-lessons that come from football, while learning the game itself. I am sure both struggled in their own rights, but such competition only benefits our children in the valley, as both need to assure they “have their ducks in a row” so to say, because there are other options.
Parents choose leagues based on a variety of factors; friends and associates in one league or another, stability of program, location of home games, location of away games, costs, uniform colors (well maybe not that, since they are both maroon) and previous childhood experiences. And As I see it, with over ~250 kids in each league there were plenty of kids to go around, and I am sure parents that had good and bad experiences with both. But liking one doesn’t mean you need to dislike the other.
But, there will always be those that beat their chest, point fingers and try to place the blame elsewhere, in an attempt to make themselves look better. After all “The Golden Rule” applies everywhere, except for some parents involved in youth athletics.